Not only this, but we also rejoice in sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance, character, and character, hope.—Rom 5:3-4 NET
At first we would say that a home into which no sorrow had ever
come, is the happiest home. It has had only prosperity. It is a
Christian home, too, and has all the blessings of true religion. It is a
home of love, ideal in its fellowship. But it has never known a sorrow.
The circle is unbroken. No tears have been shed in it. We would say
that this is the happiest home we know.
But it takes sorrow to
perfect ‘love’s happiness’. There is little doubt that the sweetest
home, is one in which there has been grief. We do not find the richest
things in the Bible, until we pass into shadows. We do not see the
stars, until night comes. There is no rainbow, except when there are
clouds. We do not find out the richest love, even of our human friends,
while we are strong and well and prosperous; it is only when we are in
some grief or trouble, that we discover how much they love us. And we do
not get the best of God’s grace–until we are in sorrow.
grief softens our hearts, makes us capable of deeper affection and
sympathy, and draws us nearer to each other. After a household has stood
together around the coffin of one of its own–it is a new tenderness
that unites the members. Suffering together, brings a new closeness in
loving. Thus, even sorrow may be put among the elements of home
-- J. R. Miller